June 18Jun 18 #544 Link to comment https://community.webinsiders.com/topic/149-when-did-you-realize-you-were-not-cut-out-for-a-9-to-5/ Share on other sites Share on Facebook {lang="reddit_text" Share on LinkedIn Share on Pinterest Share on X More sharing options... I am still in my corporate job, freelancing on the side. Part of me wants to leap. Part of me is scared I am romanticizing entrepreneurship. When did you know it was time to leave? Was there a specific moment or was it gradual?
June 18Jun 18 #609 Link to comment https://community.webinsiders.com/topic/149-when-did-you-realize-you-were-not-cut-out-for-a-9-to-5/#findComment-609 Share on other sites Share on Facebook {lang="reddit_text" Share on LinkedIn Share on Pinterest Share on X More sharing options... I got written up for being five minutes late after working until midnight the night before. That was the moment. Corporate does not reward effort. It rewards compliance. I chose effort on my own terms.
June 18Jun 18 #611 Link to comment https://community.webinsiders.com/topic/149-when-did-you-realize-you-were-not-cut-out-for-a-9-to-5/#findComment-611 Share on other sites Share on Facebook {lang="reddit_text" Share on LinkedIn Share on Pinterest Share on X More sharing options... I did not leap. I was pushed. Laid off. Best thing that ever happened to me. Sometimes the universe makes the decision for you. My advice: have six months of expenses saved before you choose. Have three months saved before you are chosen.
June 18Jun 18 #613 Link to comment https://community.webinsiders.com/topic/149-when-did-you-realize-you-were-not-cut-out-for-a-9-to-5/#findComment-613 Share on other sites Share on Facebook {lang="reddit_text" Share on LinkedIn Share on Pinterest Share on X More sharing options... Gradual. Six months of Sunday night dread. Then three months of crying in my car before work. Then one month of planning my exit. The leap was scary. Staying was scarier.
June 18Jun 18 #615 Link to comment https://community.webinsiders.com/topic/149-when-did-you-realize-you-were-not-cut-out-for-a-9-to-5/#findComment-615 Share on other sites Share on Facebook {lang="reddit_text" Share on LinkedIn Share on Pinterest Share on X More sharing options... @Marcus_C I needed that distinction. I have four months saved. Not enough to choose. Enough to survive being chosen. Going to tighten my freelance pipeline before I make any moves. Thank you.
Monday at 06:28 AM2 days #1438 Link to comment https://community.webinsiders.com/topic/149-when-did-you-realize-you-were-not-cut-out-for-a-9-to-5/#findComment-1438 Share on other sites Share on Facebook {lang="reddit_text" Share on LinkedIn Share on Pinterest Share on X More sharing options... When I got written up for being five minutes late after working until midnight. The rules felt arbitrary and I couldn't pretend otherwise anymore.
Monday at 11:04 AM2 days #1462 Link to comment https://community.webinsiders.com/topic/149-when-did-you-realize-you-were-not-cut-out-for-a-9-to-5/#findComment-1462 Share on other sites Share on Facebook {lang="reddit_text" Share on LinkedIn Share on Pinterest Share on X More sharing options... I didn't realize it. I got laid off. Best thing that ever happened. Sometimes the universe makes the decision for you.
Monday at 02:25 PM2 days #1487 Link to comment https://community.webinsiders.com/topic/149-when-did-you-realize-you-were-not-cut-out-for-a-9-to-5/#findComment-1487 Share on other sites Share on Facebook {lang="reddit_text" Share on LinkedIn Share on Pinterest Share on X More sharing options... The gradual dread. Six months of Sunday night anxiety. Then three months of crying in my car. Then one month of planning. The leap was scary but staying was scarier.
Monday at 09:39 PM2 days #1565 Link to comment https://community.webinsiders.com/topic/149-when-did-you-realize-you-were-not-cut-out-for-a-9-to-5/#findComment-1565 Share on other sites Share on Facebook {lang="reddit_text" Share on LinkedIn Share on Pinterest Share on X More sharing options... I never fit. Always questioned processes, always suggested changes, always got labeled difficult. Turns out I was just entrepreneurial in the wrong building.
Tuesday at 12:35 AM2 days #1581 Link to comment https://community.webinsiders.com/topic/149-when-did-you-realize-you-were-not-cut-out-for-a-9-to-5/#findComment-1581 Share on other sites Share on Facebook {lang="reddit_text" Share on LinkedIn Share on Pinterest Share on X More sharing options... When I calculated my hourly rate at my corporate job and realized I could make the same in two freelance days. The math was undeniable.
Tuesday at 07:32 AM1 day #1631 Link to comment https://community.webinsiders.com/topic/149-when-did-you-realize-you-were-not-cut-out-for-a-9-to-5/#findComment-1631 Share on other sites Share on Facebook {lang="reddit_text" Share on LinkedIn Share on Pinterest Share on X More sharing options... I got written up for being five minutes late after working until midnight. The rules felt arbitrary. I couldn't pretend otherwise.
Tuesday at 12:01 PM1 day #1653 Link to comment https://community.webinsiders.com/topic/149-when-did-you-realize-you-were-not-cut-out-for-a-9-to-5/#findComment-1653 Share on other sites Share on Facebook {lang="reddit_text" Share on LinkedIn Share on Pinterest Share on X More sharing options... My boss told me I needed to "pay my dues." I calculated my dues would take twelve years. I quit that afternoon.
Tuesday at 05:55 PM1 day #1696 Link to comment https://community.webinsiders.com/topic/149-when-did-you-realize-you-were-not-cut-out-for-a-9-to-5/#findComment-1696 Share on other sites Share on Facebook {lang="reddit_text" Share on LinkedIn Share on Pinterest Share on X More sharing options... I never fit. Always questioned processes, always suggested changes, always got labeled difficult. It is soooo much better when you are your own boss. Its a lot of work, dont get me wrong, but you dont have a ceiling like in a 9-5. The sky is the limit, it all comes down to how hard you want it and how much effort you do
Tuesday at 08:24 PM1 day #1719 Link to comment https://community.webinsiders.com/topic/149-when-did-you-realize-you-were-not-cut-out-for-a-9-to-5/#findComment-1719 Share on other sites Share on Facebook {lang="reddit_text" Share on LinkedIn Share on Pinterest Share on X More sharing options... Got written up for being five minutes late after working until midnight. the rules felt arbitrary and i couldn't pretend otherwise. that was the moment.
Tuesday at 09:06 PM1 day #1722 Link to comment https://community.webinsiders.com/topic/149-when-did-you-realize-you-were-not-cut-out-for-a-9-to-5/#findComment-1722 Share on other sites Share on Facebook {lang="reddit_text" Share on LinkedIn Share on Pinterest Share on X More sharing options... The moment was gradual. Six months of Sunday night dread. Then three months of crying in my car. Then one month of planning. The leap was scary but staying was scarier.
Yesterday at 12:09 AM1 day #1747 Link to comment https://community.webinsiders.com/topic/149-when-did-you-realize-you-were-not-cut-out-for-a-9-to-5/#findComment-1747 Share on other sites Share on Facebook {lang="reddit_text" Share on LinkedIn Share on Pinterest Share on X More sharing options... I got laid off. Best thing that ever happened. Sometimes the universe makes the decision for you and all you have to do is say thank you.
Yesterday at 01:12 AM1 day #1755 Link to comment https://community.webinsiders.com/topic/149-when-did-you-realize-you-were-not-cut-out-for-a-9-to-5/#findComment-1755 Share on other sites Share on Facebook {lang="reddit_text" Share on LinkedIn Share on Pinterest Share on X More sharing options... My boss told me i needed to pay my dues. i calculated my dues would take twelve years. i quit that afternoon. no plan. no savings. just couldn't do it.
Yesterday at 04:45 AM1 day #1775 Link to comment https://community.webinsiders.com/topic/149-when-did-you-realize-you-were-not-cut-out-for-a-9-to-5/#findComment-1775 Share on other sites Share on Facebook {lang="reddit_text" Share on LinkedIn Share on Pinterest Share on X More sharing options... I never fit. always questioned processes, always suggested changes, always got labeled difficult. turns out i was just entrepreneurial in the wrong building. took me five years to figure that out.
19 hours ago19 hr #1799 Link to comment https://community.webinsiders.com/topic/149-when-did-you-realize-you-were-not-cut-out-for-a-9-to-5/#findComment-1799 Share on other sites Share on Facebook {lang="reddit_text" Share on LinkedIn Share on Pinterest Share on X More sharing options... The moment was gradual. six months of sunday night dread. then three months of crying in my car. then one month of planning. the leap was scary but staying was scarier. classic story but true.
13 hours ago13 hr #1826 Link to comment https://community.webinsiders.com/topic/149-when-did-you-realize-you-were-not-cut-out-for-a-9-to-5/#findComment-1826 Share on other sites Share on Facebook {lang="reddit_text" Share on LinkedIn Share on Pinterest Share on X More sharing options... Got laid off. best thing that ever happened. sometimes the universe makes the decision for you and all you have to do is say thank you. silver linings exist.
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